Frequently Asked Questions

When are you available?

I am available from 11 am until 11 pm most days. You can find my calendar on my Contact page, though it is subject to change. (I can sometimes accept same-day appointments, but only from friends I've seen before or who can my reference check quickly - try your luck, or check my Twitter or Eros ad for opportunities! Appointments before 1 pm must be scheduled by the previous day.)


Do you have reviews?

I have adopted a no-review policy. Firstly, I prefer the private details of our time together to remain private between us. Secondly, review boards have become a security risk for all members. I request that my submissives refrain from posting reviews on such boards. If you're concerned that I may not be a real person, please visit my Twitter to see my history of posts and interactions with other users. If you'd like to sing my praises after our session, please feel free to submit a comment at the bottom of my About page.


I’ve never seen a Domme before. Will you play with a beginner?

Absolutely! I love playing with beginners and introducing people to new things. Let’s make your first experience a positive and memorable occasion.

 

What if I don’t know what I want to experience?

We can arrange our time as a “tastings” session and give you a sample of several activities. Please read through the Sessions with Me page and choose a few activities you find intriguing - we’ll start with those.

 

I’ll do anything you want, Miss Lorelei!

If you say this, I will laugh out loud and discard your message. Trust me: my capacity for inventive nastiness can easily outpace yours, and I’m unwilling to play that game.

 

Do you play with couples?

I love playing with couples, either to top both of you, or to instruct one partner in dominating the other with me. Please do not surprise your partner with a visit to me. I may also require a short meet-and-greet with both of you before scheduling.

 

Will our play leave marks?

While I am skilled at play that leaves no visual trace, there is always a risk of temporary marks with some kinds of play. If marks are a major issue for you, I can limit our activities to those with the lowest risk of marking (such as electrical play, CBT, and light bondage).


Can I call you on the phone?

I do not offer phone sessions, and I prefer email for general communication. Upon scheduling an appointment I will provide a phone/text number for last-minute contact if needed. Thereafter please revert to email for future appointment requests or questions.


Should I bring a gift?

Gifts are never required, but should you wish to spoil me, I do maintain an Amazon wishlist. Always welcome are milk chocolate, white and sparkling wine (no red, please), books, silver-tone jewelry, lingerie, and shoes. I also love gift cards from Amazon (for nearly anything I can imagine!), Mr S. Leather (my favorite source for toys and leather), Nordstrom (have you admired my shoe collection?) and Dark Garden (my favorite corsetier).

Shoe size: 8.5US/39EU

Bust: 36D

Dress size: 10/Large

 

Will we have sex during our BDSM sessions?

BDSM play can be very sexy and intimate, but I do not have sexual intercourse with my submissives. I find that sex distracts from fully experiencing the other sensations we are exploring.

 

Why didn’t you respond to my email?

You may have been disrespectful or impolite, asked me to negotiate my rates, or have clearly not read all the information on my website. I am only interested in spending time with well-mannered and obedient playmates.